Tutors can play various roles when helping students learn about their writing. A tutor is obviously a form of teacher, but it is also very important to play the role of a trustworthy peer, equal, and even friend. Seeking help from tutors can be an intimidating task for students, though when paired with a compatible tutor, the student will find their time and courage well spent. All too often tutors come off as impatient and condescending, which may actually be true in some situations. The most important skill one may find as a tutor is viewing the student as an equal. Many times students are discouraged enough as it is, and they do not need further scrutiny from a tutor to further barrage their self esteem.
As a tutor, it is very important to focus on the positive attributes of a student’s writing. When making suggestions or corrections, it may be wise to sandwich them between two or more positive and uplifting comments on the student’s work. Also, be flexible. Keep in mind that the work is not yours, it is the students, and if they choose not to take your advice that is their choice. Avoid stiff, black and white thinking. When it comes to the English language we all know that there are massive gray areas surrounding many rules, and that many “rules” are not in fact rules at all, but mere opinions on style and word choice.
Always keep in mind that though you may be tutoring someone in writing, chances are you aren’t the next Hemmingway or London. Though you may have an English writing background, education, etc. you are not the all knowing. Even if you were, writing in English consists much of opinion and style, and sentences and clauses can be rearranged and ordered in many various patterns and still be considered correct English by the books.